Interview with The Cuckold Consultant.com (Blog #8)

Here is an interview we did with the Cuckold Consultant. We get a lot of people asking us advice on how to get into the lifestyle and this is one of the best pages to go to and start to learn more about the lifestyle 

(Due to google rules I cannot provide you with the direct linkup his site  so please check out thecuckoldconsultant.com)

An Exclusive Interview – Meet Hotwife4oldermen 

The couple in this interview has been together for 25 years, and for 20 out of those 25 years they’re been in the hotwife lifestyle. What’s perhaps most interesting in my opinion is how a “soccer mom” with a full time job and family has been able to have this much continued success in the lifestyle.

This isn’t to say married mothers can’t have continued success but rather the challenges that many couples face are often reasons for their journeys to stop or die out. The wife is one-half the composite of the couple Hotwife4oldermen though has been with over 100 different men, and the husband has been documenting her journey.

I’m sure you’ll find reading their story interesting, so without further ado, enjoy!

Interview Questions 

 

• How did the two of you get into hotwifing/cuckolding lifestyle? Whose idea was it, what was the other’s reaction, and how did it all progress to what it’s become today?

A: Before we were married she told em she wanted to try a 3 way FMF and this was the late 90’s so it was impossible to find someone. So Like everyone else we started out swinging. She quickly learned she wasn’t into other women. She then said she wanted to try a MFM 3 way with me. And we did it a few times and I remember sitting back not joining in and loving it. Then I found a website Hotwife Jackie and that changed everything. It was hard for her to understand at first but she embraced it quickly. 

 

 

• Most guys have a hard time getting their wives to embrace their submissive side in their own bedroom when it’s just the two of them. How have you managed to get your wife to embrace it with others?

A: I take pictures and video 80% of her dates and it’s like watching a game film. I notice she had submissive tendencies.  and when she is caught up in the morning she seems to embrace it more. However when she is with me in our bedroom she’s not as submissive. It was it until past 10 years she really embraced it. 

 

 

• Most women say they want/need some kind of emotional connection with a man before she sleeps with him. Is this true for your wife, or does she prefer it to be more of a “stranger” fucking her kind of encounter?

A: it really depends on her mood and where we are at.  She loves both. If we know we want to meet someone for a possible long-term relationship then there definitely have to be a connection. If we are out in another town like Vegas and go to a club then we are fine with a one night stand. 

 

 

• It seems the two of you have had a lot of hotwife experiences. How many would you say you’ve had up until this point (not number of guys, but rather experiences overall)? Can you give us details on one or two of the most memorable ones?

A: It’s easily over 100.  We usually like to go out once a month and try to meet up with 2 bulls in one night. 

Most memorable had to be this past December in Vegas. We met up with a local guy that we have played with on 4 other occasions and for some reason something came over her and she let him fuck her bareback. 

The second was end of February this year we just set up a quick meeting with a new person and she ended up in the backseat letting him finger her and then she sucked his cock. 

 

 

• What are 2-3 of the most “extreme” submissive things your wife has done, and what were those experiences like?

1. Doctor office exam in a real Doctors office
2. Show up to a doms house and let him flog her and use a dildo attached to a saw
3. Getting collared, leashed and then fucked bareback 

 

Dr. Office Exam with real Doctor

 

• Many couples don’t know where to start when it comes to finding a bull. Is there any kind of streamlined process you follow now to increase the odds of 1) finding someone real, and 2) finding someone suitable?

A:That is why I handle all the initial contact we use swinging sites and craigslist was great before they shut it down. What I do is give them the basic information about us let them know it’s me the husband. Once I get a feeling they are real then I show my wife who I’m talking to show her the pictures and emails and if she likes what she sees then we go forward with setting a date. 

 

 

• Are you always there when your wife plays with other men? If so, do you have to reject a lot of men who aren’t open to this (would you say most are open to you being there, or not open to you being there)? If not, what’s it like knowing she’s out on her own with another man getting fucked by him?

A: yes I’m always there and one of our things are if you want to play with my wife you have to let me take pictures and videos. However after we have met somebody and been with them a few times and there’s a really good connection I do let my wife play alone. Just as long as she has a camera set up. 

 

 

• Why is she known as hotwife 4 “older” men? Does she ever play with younger men? Does she prefer older men, and if so, why?

 

 A: there’s something about older men that she likes we have tried playing with younger guys and there have been a few but most of them flake out or can’t rise to the occasion.  she likes how they are mature and they’ve already been around the block know what they want and have a dominating side to them.  also so much of this is centered around BBC we decided to share our experiences bring something different to the lifestyle. 

 

• Can you describe what 2-3 of the biggest emotional turns on are for you in exploring this lifestyle with your wife? (I.e. angst, control, lack of control, jealousy, etc.)

 

A: when we first started we had a rule that there’s no kissing on the mouth and after one experience we both quickly realized how boring that was. I learned that my turn on is being jealous and I tell her and her bull that their goal is to make me jealous. And watching her submit to another man and do something she normally won’t deal with me is it an adrenaline rush I can’t explain. 

 

• I noticed you said you almost always play safe but you said one of these days she’ll let a bull ride her bareback. Do either of you have a pregnancy fetish of sorts or get aroused by another man cumming inside her?

 

A: she has her tubes tied and every since she did that I noticed she has had a pregnancy fetish and there are a few bulls we trust that she loves going bareback with. 

 

• Can the Mrs. take a SFW picture (or NSFW, whichever you’d prefer) holding up a sign that says “TheCuckoldConsultant.com”?

 

I want to thank Hotwife4oldermen for taking the time to do this interview with us. If you're interested in learning more about them, I highly suggest you check out all their sites which can be found here: https://linktr.ee/hotwife4oldermen