How we got started in the Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle - Part: 3 (Blog #7)

Journey into the Cuckold lifestyle - Part 3 (Blog #7)
By. Husband

If you are familiar with this lifestyle you've heard the many different terms. Hotwife, Stag/Vixen, and Cuckold. 

With a quick search, you'll get a different definition for each one of these terms but for my wife and me here is how we view the lifestyle. 

Hotwife, Stag/Vixen: This is where we started out and whenever we would meet and play with someone, I was always there but I was never acknowledged. I was a fly on the wall and the two of them never paid attention to me. There was no teasing or humiliation and it was just pure sex nothing more.  And depending on the bull we still continue to play this way.

The deeper we got into this lifestyle I learned about the term Cuckold. And at the time it was still due to a lot of people.  If you Google the term you will get 100 different definitions from people. And of course I researched every one of them and after being in this lifestyle for over 10 years I became more curious and watch videos, read different articles

As I learn more about this side of the lifestyle I found this great article from this website CuckyBoy.Com (Due to bloggers policies I cannot provide you a direct link sorry)

In general, there tend to be 3 types of cuckolds in my humble opinion:

Cuckold Type 1 - The traditional cuckold

• The cuckold may have come to the lifestyle by finding out his wife is cheating
• There is a certain aspect of deviance by the cheating wife
• The cuckold can seem almost tortured by the cheating wife's behavior
• The cuckolds say they enjoy it but if you really read what they're saying in their posts or comments it's almost as though they do not have choice and they lack of choice excites them
• At some level the cuckold does enjoy the emotional torture, much like a masochist
• They enjoy the humiliation aspects of cuckolding (wimp factor, knows his place, small penis)
• The slut wife sometimes includes him and sometimes she ignores him
• The cuckolds tend to be more submissive in all aspects of the relationship and the hotwives tend to be more dominant in all aspects
• The cheating wife may practice sexual denial with the cuckold

Cuckold Type 2 - The non-traditional cuckold  

• Came to the lifestyle after learning about hotwife
• They love their hotwives having sex with other men
• Their hot wives enjoy teasing the cuckold and letting him be a part of it somehow (the cuckold is not necessarily always physically present with her and her lover, but she makes sure that he is a part of it by calling or telling him all the details when she arrives home)
• The cuckold and the slut wife are open about all aspects of the wives sexual activity, no deviance
• The cuckold enjoys the hotwife's sluttieness and her sexual power over him
• The cuckold tends to have more desire and passion for his wife after she has been with another man
• These cuckolds tend to be only sexually submissive
• In all other aspects of the relationship the cuckold and wife are equal partners

  
  Cuckold Type 3 - The Fem or Wimp Cuckold

• The cuckold enjoys feminization brought on by the hotwife
• The cuckold enjoys the forced femization by the hot wife, made to wear panties, make up, bras, etc.
• The cuckold enjoys the humiliation of not being man enough to handle his wife
• The slut wife tends to be dominate in all aspects of the relationship
• The hot wife may or may not include the cuckold in her sexual activities
• The cuckold has definite bi-sexual tendencies
• The hot wife may use a strap on dildo on her fem cuck
• The hot wife may include the lover in using the cuck for her pleasure (oral and anal)

After we read this we realized we fell into the category "Cuckold Type 2".  Everything you read about type 2 fits us perfectly. She will tease me and not let me have sex with her or even touch her sexually weeks prior to meeting one of her bulls. And when she is with her bull she will be more submissive with him and tell me how much better and bigger he is than me. 

Her main goal is to make me jealous and I want to prove myself to her when it's my turn. Because in my normal life I'm a highly competitive person and always in control so when she does this it really makes me want to up my game when I am with her. 

For the record I am not bi nor do I clean up, fluff, or suck her bulls cock. We are not into pegging or ball torture.  This is more verbal role-play and during the regular workweek sometimes we don't even talk about it and just go on as a normal sexless couple that is busy. 

One rule she has for me is that I am not allowed to masturbate. So you can imagine knowing that your wife is going to be fucking another man in the next few weeks and there is nothing you can do in the meantime to release that sexual tension.  

To sum it all up this is how we view the our Cuckold Lifestyle: 

Pro Cuckold Stuff I like:

I love to see her/help her getting ready for a date and it's not with me!

I love to see her give in to a lover's advances even in public like at a restaurant or in the hotel lobby

I love it when she tells me that her lover will be fucking her first and I'll have to wait my turn.

I love it when she wont let me touch her or even myself 1-2 weeks prior to meeting her bull

I love to hear her moans and screams and know that some other man is in control of her.

I love it when she begs a lover to fill her up with or without a condom

I enjoy taking pictures/videotaping when she is being fucked

I love it when she teases me about her boyfriends and tells me how good they are and how bad she wants them

I love it when she is really into them and does not hold back when she is with them.

I love it when she looks at me while she is getting fucked and tells me how much better/bigger her lover is

I don't like the guy talking directly to me. I like it when it tells my wife to look at me and tell me if she's enjoying it.

Stuff that might not make me a Cuckold:

My cock not like the 3" cocks I've read about and

I don't wear women's panties or anything like that

I don't like name calling (fag, wimp, sissy & bitch)

I wouldn't suck a guys cock even if she begged me to

I won't eat her creampie in front of her lover

So I would say I am a 50/50 cuckold